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Nah, the pedophile thread has got the record in this subforum
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As the japanese proverb reportedly says: "The nail that stands out, gets hammered." The self-directed and self-motivated are derided as curve busters, obsessive, nerds, etc. Grandstanders making everybody else feel bad. The politically correct approach is supposed to be cooperation and teamwork so that everybody shares the glory or avoids the embarrassment of failure. It is all about limiting risk, celebrating the mild, decrying the bold. Not about about pushing yourself to your limits, finding them, and then growing past them or working around them. The evidence is piling up, though, that motivation and determination matters. That the willingness to work hard and stick with a task in the face of challenge and opposition is the best indicator of future success for children. More so than getting along with others and following the herd. http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/...n-ever/309402/ The above snippet is from the author of a recent, well-reviewed book on education, that highlights the effectiveness of challenging children, even *demanding* excellence, in developing a child's full potential. http://www.amazon.com/The-Smartest-K...7094473&sr=1-1 http://www.economist.com/news/books-...-and-brightest Quote:
Those that decry competition are saying that teaching conformity and acquiescence is preferable to challenging kids to excel. Makes for more pliable, less contentious citizens, obviously. Easier to lead for the powers that be, whether library directors or politicians. And, of course, if challenging kids to excel is deplorable, how much more deplorable the ones that challenge themselves. A bunch of trouble makers, really. Inventing things, disrupting businesses and tradition. Pushing to the boundaries and beyond. Better to wish them away, right? (Good luck with that, BTW.) |
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A "Rorschach test" of a topic. As I said above it is proving very educational to see the different positions. |
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The problem is not the child. The problem is the library director came up with a program that didn't put enough thought into the program. If she wants to encourage children to read, she should have thought of a broader way to do it--rather than a simple, "read most wins." She shouldn't be suggesting the kid not compete. She needs to step up and create a program that rewards more children or encourages them to read via multiple channels.
I saw a couple of people discuss their library programs. The one at my library has several tiers for different age groups. There are prizes along the way (this many books gets to pick a prize from this box) and there are super champs and so on. There is even an adult competition. The director needs to look at her own deficiencies rather than singling out (in a negative fashion) a child doing something positive. |
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There'll always be "overachievers". As long as they don't set the standards by which everyone else is judged, I have no problem with it.
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Obviously, a library would have to establish a goal that was neither too easy nor too hard for the kids to reach. And that's based on their individual patronage. Or, alternatively, they could establish a time requirement rather than a books finished requirement, which would level the playing field with fast and slow readers. There is no perfect idea that is going to work for every situation. But this library seemed to think that making the kids compete to see who would read the most would be a way to encourage reading and found it to have some unintended consequences. It's no surprise, since governments have a long history of doing things with the best of intentions and the worst of results. |
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The obvious conclusion is that none of those in the joyless group would win the 'who reads most books in 6 weeks' contest, because as you pointed out, they read slower. So what difference would it make if the winner is Tyler, or his brother, or whoever came in third if everyone knows for sure that the slow readers have no chance of winning? |
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Our library has MULTIPLE sponsors. The local restaurants give a coupon for sodas, meals, etc. Dollar donations are turned into t-shirt prizes. Other sponsors give pencils, pens and that sort of thing (usually with their logo on there). Our director works hard every year to get prizes.
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"*I* (the all-knowing manager) think you are not capable to do this." Uh. What? Do you have any proof of that? I've been tested by Mensa to belong to (at least) the upper 5% of most intelligent people on this planet. Apparantly, I'm not stupid. I've completed normal university education, despite former teachers in primary and secondary education telling my parents to send me to a "special" school because of my poor eyesight. (They thought that it would prevent me from keeping up.) I still did make it. Apparantly, I'm already capable of doing things the "experts" said I shouldn't be able to. So. Who are you to tell me that I can't do something? Get lost. Given time, relevant materials to study and tools to work with, combined with my own determination and motivation, I can do anything and become anything. Granted, I can't apply for a position of brain surgeon right now. I can't do that. Heck, I couldn't even apply for a position of car mechanic. I don't have the skills or the knowledge. But, if I wanted to become a car mechanic or a brain surgeon, I'm quite sure I could do it. The only prohibition for many (intelligent) people to not be able to do things is lack of knowledge, and often, lack of money or time to acquire it. Even people with only average intelligence can often do much more than they, or others, think they are capable of, *if* they have the motivation to work at it. They'll probably need to work harder or practice more than the more intelligent people, but that doesn't take away the fact they can do stuff, if given the chance. Last edited by Katsunami; 08-21-2013 at 02:58 PM. |
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