Unfriending: Applies here (and other forums) as well - Page 2

kindlekitten · 10-06-2010, 03:24 PM

I have a facebook page but nothing is there except for my email address. I went to an international high school, and then the military, it's hard to keep track of all those folks

SneakySnake · 10-06-2010, 07:50 PM

I got bored with my facebook after about a week. Nobody is likely to find me because I have such a common name. There are thousands of me. I haven't looked at facebook for months, however, yesterday as I dropped into my hairdresser to make an appointment, she commented on the costume party photo of me!

what!
Another facebook friend had posted the photos, and they just popped up on the hairdresser's page.

No harm done I guess, but makes you think about stuff about you going on you don't even know about! Lucky I am not famous!

ShortNCuddlyAm · 10-06-2010, 08:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bilbo1967

Here's a true story from last week. All of our family went to Vancouver where my brother (Matthew) already lives for his wedding. One evening we all met at my brother's apartment and my sister borrowed his laptop to check her Facebook account.

"Ooh, I've got a message from Matthew", she said, "I'd better reply to it" and started typing furiously. Matthew was sat next to her at the time!

I didn't know whether to laugh or cry

I'd've laughed, but that's only because I know people who would do that ironically or humourously (I'm one of them, if I'm honest. I get it from my mum - we've been known to text each other whilst in the same room and holding a completely different conversation. It was mostly to wind dad up, though

I have a facebook account, which I use for a variety of reasons, none of which I would object to future employers finding out about. I lead a very boring life

kennyc · 10-06-2010, 08:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SneakySnake

... Lucky I am not famous!

What???

I'm so confused!

doreenjoy · 10-07-2010, 12:15 AM

I find FB very useful for promotions and for giving readers the illusion that I deeply care about their opinions.

The one HUGE advantage is that total strangers can send me messages without having access to my e-mail address. Love that.

I have extreme privacy settings and don't allow tagging of me in photos, so no fears on that score.

GraceKrispy · 10-07-2010, 12:21 AM

I have resisted tons of requests to join FB. My TOP reason for not wanting to join? I have way too many realities (and identities) and I didn't want them colliding on the WWW. I like my realities neatly boxed in their respective space/time continuum. Also I didn't need another time sucker. I still googlestalk the people I want to find.

I did, however, start a FB just recently under the insistence of my husband. Basically, I just upload my book reviews on it. I never go on it, one person requested my friendship and I've no idea how to really use it. But it's there. With no personal info, other than this name.

I've just heard too many friends bitch and moan about the dumb stuff they have to read and the trouble FB causes between friends/lovers (who turn into ex-friends and ex-lovers). No thanks, I can cause myself enough trouble with electronic help.

SneakySnake · 10-07-2010, 01:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GraceKrispy

I have resisted tons of requests to join FB. My TOP reason for not wanting to join? I have way too many realities (and identities) and I didn't want them colliding on the WWW. I like my realities neatly boxed in their respective space/time continuum. Also I didn't need another time sucker. I still googlestalk the people I want to find.

I did, however, start a FB just recently under the insistence of my husband. Basically, I just upload my book reviews on it. I never go on it, one person requested my friendship and I've no idea how to really use it. But it's there. With no personal info, other than this name.

I've just heard too many friends bitch and moan about the dumb stuff they have to read and the trouble FB causes between friends/lovers (who turn into ex-friends and ex-lovers). No thanks, I can cause myself enough trouble with electronic help.

Are you the GraceKrispy in twitter? unused for a year?

GraceKrispy · 10-07-2010, 02:50 AM

WHAT?? there's a gracekrispy in twitter?? I haven't found a gracekrispy anywhere (besides me)! Who has stolen my identity? IDENTITY THIEF!

I don't do twitter.. I don't even understand the concept! Unless I one day signed up while I was sleeping drunk....

Now I'm scared!

Ok, my husband just looked it up (he has twitter) and he said yep, it's there, "hey whassssssssssuuuuuuuuuuppppppp?" I don't write like that! Who IS that?

astra · 10-07-2010, 06:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrscoach

***** found a lot of *** classmates *** graduated with almost 30 years ago and tells me I could find people I used to know. If I wanted to find them, I would look. I detested 9/10 of my graduating class. Why would I want contact now?

No social network accounts for me. Waste of time!

kennyc · 10-07-2010, 06:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GraceKrispy

WHAT?? there's a gracekrispy in twitter?? I haven't found a gracekrispy anywhere (besides me)! Who has stolen my identity? IDENTITY THIEF!

I don't do twitter.. I don't even understand the concept! Unless I one day signed up while I was sleeping drunk....

Now I'm scared!

Ok, my husband just looked it up (he has twitter) and he said yep, it's there, "hey whassssssssssuuuuuuuuuuppppppp?" I don't write like that! Who IS that?

On thinking, this sort of thing is particularly disturbing about the wild west of the internet in that someone can more or less assume your identity (can you say identity theft) so easily ....

You wouldn't believe how many kennyc's there are out there!!!

Krystian Galaj · 10-07-2010, 08:51 AM

I have a Facebook account, and I use it every day, but I keep my list of friends to people I know in real life and trust, declining all other invitations. My privacy settings are set to friends or friends of friends at most. I never had any problem with it, and it's a nice way of keeping in touch and getting information about parties/events.

I'm sure it's different with accounts set up for business purposes.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bilbo1967

Here's a true story from last week. All of our family went to Vancouver where my brother (Matthew) already lives for his wedding. One evening we all met at my brother's apartment and my sister borrowed his laptop to check her Facebook account.

"Ooh, I've got a message from Matthew", she said, "I'd better reply to it" and started typing furiously. Matthew was sat next to her at the time!

I didn't know whether to laugh or cry

Unless it was a PM, on Facebook there's a small crowd of friends around who read those things, so the reply would be a kind of public statement, different than just replying to one person, cutting out the rest. Just like here on the forum.

LCF · 10-07-2010, 10:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by astra

No social network accounts for me. Waste of time!

I have 147 "friends"*

*Not all of them are friends friends, but I actually want to be able to contact any one of them.

Bilbo1967 · 10-07-2010, 10:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Krystian Galaj

Unless it was a PM, on Facebook there's a small crowd of friends around who read those things, so the reply would be a kind of public statement, different than just replying to one person, cutting out the rest. Just like here on the forum.

Ah, OK. Maybe she's not as mad as I thought then

sakura-panda · 10-07-2010, 11:10 AM

I have a facebook account because some stores post discounts there. I have set my privacy settings so that I can't be found in searches and I never finished filling out my profile past name, email address, and birthday anyway.

My friend found me through a common "like", and I ended up accepting her request, as well as ones from her dad and her husband. Since then, I've been refusing her friends and family, since I don't have a history or personal connection with them beyond talking to them at her kids' birthday parties.

However, Facebook recently changed something and my account opened up and my husband's grandmother's nephew found me.

I accepted him and fixed my settings, but now every couple of days I get another family member (from his list) asking to friend me.

I don't post anything, although my Goodreads account is hooked up and if I remember to go over there and add books, those get posted on my wall, but that's it. I'm only in it for the coupons! I'm accepting these recent requests, because they are family. I told my husband that if they all want to friend me and check out my local business links, they are welcome to it.

Steven Lyle Jordan · 10-07-2010, 12:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LCF

I have 147 "friends"*

*Not all of them are friends friends, but I actually want to be able to contact any one of them.

I'm still trying to figure out what setting I changed that resulted in my getting no friend requests at all when I opened my account (my wife thinks I'm lying, and actually have a hidden folder of sleazy friends in there somewhere--I wish someone would tell me where).

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10-06-2010, 03:24 PM	#16
kindlekitten Professional Adventuress Posts: 13,368 Karma: 50260224 Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: The Olympic Peninsula on the OTHER Washington! (the big green clean one on the west coast!) Device: Kindle, the original! Times Two! and gifting an International Kindle	I have a facebook page but nothing is there except for my email address. I went to an international high school, and then the military, it's hard to keep track of all those folks

10-06-2010, 07:50 PM	#17
SneakySnake I'm watching you! Posts: 6,113 Karma: 22344652 Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Sunny Coast Qld, OZ Device: Sony PRS-900(unused lately) iPadAir2, want me Kindle Oasis	I got bored with my facebook after about a week. Nobody is likely to find me because I have such a common name. There are thousands of me. I haven't looked at facebook for months, however, yesterday as I dropped into my hairdresser to make an appointment, she commented on the costume party photo of me! what! Another facebook friend had posted the photos, and they just popped up on the hairdresser's page. No harm done I guess, but makes you think about stuff about you going on you don't even know about! Lucky I am not famous!

10-07-2010, 12:15 AM	#20
doreenjoy 01000100 01001010 Posts: 1,889 Karma: 2400000 Join Date: Mar 2009 Device: Polyamorous	I find FB very useful for promotions and for giving readers the illusion that I deeply care about their opinions. The one HUGE advantage is that total strangers can send me messages without having access to my e-mail address. Love that. I have extreme privacy settings and don't allow tagging of me in photos, so no fears on that score.

10-07-2010, 12:21 AM	#21
GraceKrispy It's Dr. Penguin now! Posts: 3,909 Karma: 4705733 Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: (USA) Device: iPad mini, Samsung Note 3, Sony PRS-650 (rarely used now)	I have resisted tons of requests to join FB. My TOP reason for not wanting to join? I have way too many realities (and identities) and I didn't want them colliding on the WWW. I like my realities neatly boxed in their respective space/time continuum. Also I didn't need another time sucker. I still googlestalk the people I want to find. I did, however, start a FB just recently under the insistence of my husband. Basically, I just upload my book reviews on it. I never go on it, one person requested my friendship and I've no idea how to really use it. But it's there. With no personal info, other than this name. I've just heard too many friends bitch and moan about the dumb stuff they have to read and the trouble FB causes between friends/lovers (who turn into ex-friends and ex-lovers). No thanks, I can cause myself enough trouble with electronic help.

10-07-2010, 02:50 AM	#23
GraceKrispy It's Dr. Penguin now! Posts: 3,909 Karma: 4705733 Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: (USA) Device: iPad mini, Samsung Note 3, Sony PRS-650 (rarely used now)	WHAT?? there's a gracekrispy in twitter?? I haven't found a gracekrispy anywhere (besides me)! Who has stolen my identity? IDENTITY THIEF! I don't do twitter.. I don't even understand the concept! Unless I one day signed up while I was sleeping drunk.... Now I'm scared! Ok, my husband just looked it up (he has twitter) and he said yep, it's there, "hey whassssssssssuuuuuuuuuuppppppp?" I don't write like that! Who IS that?

10-07-2010, 11:10 AM	#29
sakura-panda Guru Posts: 935 Karma: 9558874 Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Southeast Michigan, USA Device: Kindle Oasis; 11" iPad Pro (Books, Kindle, Kobo, MapleRead SE)	I have a facebook account because some stores post discounts there. I have set my privacy settings so that I can't be found in searches and I never finished filling out my profile past name, email address, and birthday anyway. My friend found me through a common "like", and I ended up accepting her request, as well as ones from her dad and her husband. Since then, I've been refusing her friends and family, since I don't have a history or personal connection with them beyond talking to them at her kids' birthday parties. However, Facebook recently changed something and my account opened up and my husband's grandmother's nephew found me. I accepted him and fixed my settings, but now every couple of days I get another family member (from his list) asking to friend me. I don't post anything, although my Goodreads account is hooked up and if I remember to go over there and add books, those get posted on my wall, but that's it. I'm only in it for the coupons! I'm accepting these recent requests, because they are family. I told my husband that if they all want to friend me and check out my local business links, they are welcome to it.