Silliness So what are you doing RIGHT NOW? - Page 1301

recluse · 07-22-2010, 10:28 PM

Poor baby.
*BIG HUG"

I'm sending you a rocket launcher.

kindlekitten · 07-22-2010, 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by badgoodDeb

Did Social Worker seem to agree with your comment? Just curious if (s)he had an opinion, expressed facially or verbally. {{Huggs}} and prayers.

yes she did, and rephrased it to get the point across.

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Originally Posted by glowhappy

if I were standing next to you, I'd hold your hand.

thank you!

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Originally Posted by recluse

I'm here for you, Kindlekitten.

Always.

*BIG HUG*

big hugs back!

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Originally Posted by yvanleterrible

Don't hold a grudge to your ma about her fretting. She's desperate and probably far away from being herself. She's caring as well as her competence allows her.
He's hers first you know! Any decision you suggest is a threat, it's not that you're not right...
Accepting that is really, really difficult.

Does your dad know that.....finality is near?

this is the relationship, how it has always been. I am NEVER allowed to be right even when her need to win causes huge problems.

I think Dad is pretty much gone and it is his physical essence that is finishing up. there has been nothing said for 3 days now. his eyes no longer track. supposedly the hearing is last to go so I simply let him know I am there, that he is loved, leave my hand where his can find it and then sit quietly so as to not cause further agitation

SneakySnake · 07-23-2010, 12:48 AM

lots of hugs KK.......

beppe · 07-23-2010, 03:28 AM

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Originally Posted by kindlekitten

I think Dad is pretty much gone and it is his physical essence that is finishing up. there has been nothing said for 3 days now. his eyes no longer track. supposedly the hearing is last to go so I simply let him know I am there, that he is loved, leave my hand where his can find it and then sit quietly so as to not cause further agitation

Good daughter! Somehow he will feel it. Something warm to accompany him.

You both are on my mind.

kennyc · 07-23-2010, 05:59 AM

Sending warm thoughts KK for you, your dad and family.

yvanleterrible · 07-23-2010, 06:32 AM

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Originally Posted by kindlekitten

this is the relationship, how it has always been. I am NEVER allowed to be right even when her need to win causes huge problems.

I think Dad is pretty much gone and it is his physical essence that is finishing up. there has been nothing said for 3 days now. his eyes no longer track. supposedly the hearing is last to go so I simply let him know I am there, that he is loved, leave my hand where his can find it and then sit quietly so as to not cause further agitation

That's the spirit, patience is your ally. Your mom will be there afterwards, still important and more. Then she'll crash and need your support.
You're doing good, talk to him in your mind, it's just as well.
I'm proud of your strength. Hugs...

kindlekitten · 07-23-2010, 09:50 AM

well he passed this morning. about 3 we think. the facility called about 3:30. his struggle is over and he is at rest

kennyc · 07-23-2010, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by kindlekitten

well he passed this morning. about 3 we think. the facility called about 3:30. his struggle is over and he is at rest

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

badgoodDeb · 07-23-2010, 01:10 PM

Ditto {{{{{huggs}}}}}

recluse · 07-23-2010, 01:30 PM

*BIG HUG*

happy_terd · 07-23-2010, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by kindlekitten

well he passed this morning. about 3 we think. the facility called about 3:30. his struggle is over and he is at rest

Sorry for your loss.

pshrynk · 07-23-2010, 02:53 PM

I know from recent experience how you are feeling, KK. The worst is past and then you can go home soon!

dreams · 07-23-2010, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by kindlekitten

well he passed this morning. about 3 we think. the facility called about 3:30. his struggle is over and he is at rest

I'm so sorry, KK. **BIG HUG**

ShortNCuddlyAm · 07-23-2010, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by kindlekitten

well he passed this morning. about 3 we think. the facility called about 3:30. his struggle is over and he is at rest

(((hugs)))

poohbear_nc · 07-23-2010, 06:38 PM

Just got home from the hospital. Got up at 4 am this morning to take partner in for a femoral arteriogram - she's been having lots of leg pain & weakness - suspected thrombus/blockages.
Right leg arteries cleared via balloon agioplasty & stents.
Left leg arteries totally occluded - will need bypass graft surgery later.

After the procedure, the doc didn't apply pressure long enuff on the catheter site - lots of bleeding - then huge pressure bandage, followed by her being strapped flat to bed with leg immobilized for 6 hours. Finally got home - we're both exhausted. Cats were slightly hysterical.

Side note: I had taken my K2, and surveyed the waiting area for reading devices: 1 Nook, 5 laptops/netbooks, 6 phones. K2 did fine under subdued hospital lighting - in really dim areas I just increased the text size.

07-22-2010, 10:28 PM	#19501
recluse Banned Posts: 3,724 Karma: 535488 Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: the Mortuary Device: Kindle 2	Poor baby. *BIG HUG" I'm sending you a rocket launcher.

07-23-2010, 12:48 AM	#19503
SneakySnake I'm watching you! Posts: 6,113 Karma: 22344652 Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Sunny Coast Qld, OZ Device: Sony PRS-900(unused lately) iPadAir2, want me Kindle Oasis	lots of hugs KK.......

07-23-2010, 05:59 AM	#19505
kennyc The Dank Side of the Moon Posts: 35,904 Karma: 119230421 Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Denver, CO Device: Kindle2; Kindle Fire	Sending warm thoughts KK for you, your dad and family.

07-23-2010, 09:50 AM	#19507
kindlekitten Professional Adventuress Posts: 13,368 Karma: 50260224 Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: The Olympic Peninsula on the OTHER Washington! (the big green clean one on the west coast!) Device: Kindle, the original! Times Two! and gifting an International Kindle	well he passed this morning. about 3 we think. the facility called about 3:30. his struggle is over and he is at rest

07-23-2010, 01:10 PM	#19509
badgoodDeb Grand Sorcerer Posts: 8,551 Karma: 64462893 Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Harrisburg outskirts Device: Palms, K1-4s, iPads, iPhones, KV, KO1	Ditto {{{{{huggs}}}}}

07-23-2010, 01:30 PM	#19510
recluse Banned Posts: 3,724 Karma: 535488 Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: the Mortuary Device: Kindle 2	BIG HUG

07-23-2010, 02:53 PM	#19512
pshrynk Beepbeep n beebeep, yeah! Posts: 11,726 Karma: 8255450 Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: La Crosse, Wisconsin, aka America's IceBox Device: iThingie, KmkII, I miss Zelda!	I know from recent experience how you are feeling, KK. The worst is past and then you can go home soon!

07-23-2010, 06:38 PM	#19515
poohbear_nc Bah! Humbug! Posts: 63,493 Karma: 135239851 Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Durham, NC Device: Every Kindle Ever Made & To Be Made!	Just got home from the hospital. Got up at 4 am this morning to take partner in for a femoral arteriogram - she's been having lots of leg pain & weakness - suspected thrombus/blockages. Right leg arteries cleared via balloon agioplasty & stents. Left leg arteries totally occluded - will need bypass graft surgery later. After the procedure, the doc didn't apply pressure long enuff on the catheter site - lots of bleeding - then huge pressure bandage, followed by her being strapped flat to bed with leg immobilized for 6 hours. Finally got home - we're both exhausted. Cats were slightly hysterical. Side note: I had taken my K2, and surveyed the waiting area for reading devices: 1 Nook, 5 laptops/netbooks, 6 phones. K2 did fine under subdued hospital lighting - in really dim areas I just increased the text size.