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Originally Posted by zelda_pinwheel
i'm starting to get the feeling that sparrow is the not the best source of advice for this particular situation ! 
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It's true my repertoire is now exhausted.
But I hope you've decided you are NOT going - you'll feel miserable, you won't be very good company, and it won't do you any good for tomorrow - so going ain't going to happen (I hope).
The problem is minimising the guilt-trip. And I don't see why you should have one - you've been there for her in the past, this time you need a bit of consideration in return. So stay home, relax, and get better for tomorrow is my advice.