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Originally Posted by Hitch
Honestly...
These two sound like the typical woman who just make me CRINGE about my gender. That sort of "oh, you're not NICE!" whining and bullying drives me nuts. I don't CARE if she has rough circumstances. So what? If her circs are that dire, then DON'T partake in the group. If you think you can't get out to the PO, or whatever, to send books, then do not say you will.
There's nothing complex about it. Either do what you say you will, or don't commit. Period. The fact that she had the moderator GANG UP on you just infuriates me. I loathe people like that. If I'd been jerked around like that, I'd have done a LOT more than one post that didn't even name the perp.
What a load. You tell those two that an agreement like that is a CONTRACT. No, not quite like a homeloan, but a contract nonetheless. Hell, more enforceable than many, as it's not only verbal. Tell them to put up or shut up.
GRRRRRRRRRRRR. "Oh, no, you're not NICE! What's your PROBLEM? You're not acting like a nice shrinking violet, who should take all the crap we deal out, and not--omg!--EMBARRASS us! Act more like a GIRL!"
Disgusting.
Oh, and then? Leave the group, and leave a post telling them all WHY. Asshats.
Hitch
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