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Originally Posted by Blossom
Especially after I sent her 8 books.
The hostess ignore me when I messaged her Friday but she jump the minute her friend went to her after she saw the public post I made Sunday to supposely embarrassed my partner. One I did not mention names and two when someone asked about the list that shows all the names I explained what it was but did not tell them where to find it.
This is not the first time this has happened as with any exchange but I'm the first to really rock the boat it seems.
I told her just to send them back and we can just forget it happened. Neither liked my idea. I was asked what my problem was. 
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Honestly...
These two sound like the typical woman who just make me CRINGE about my gender. That sort of "oh, you're not NICE!" whining and bullying drives me nuts. I don't CARE if she has rough circumstances. So what? If her circs are that dire, then DON'T partake in the group. If you think you can't get out to the PO, or whatever, to send books, then do not say you will.
There's nothing complex about it. Either do what you say you will, or don't commit. Period. The fact that she had the moderator GANG UP on you just infuriates me. I loathe people like that. If I'd been jerked around like that, I'd have done a LOT more than one post that didn't even name the perp.
What a load. You tell those two that an agreement like that is a CONTRACT. No, not quite like a homeloan, but a contract nonetheless. Hell, more enforceable than many, as it's not only verbal. Tell them to put up or shut up.
GRRRRRRRRRRRR. "Oh, no, you're not NICE! What's your PROBLEM? You're not acting like a nice shrinking violet, who should take all the crap we deal out, and not--omg!--EMBARRASS us! Act more like a GIRL!"
Disgusting.
Oh, and then? Leave the group, and leave a post telling them all WHY. Asshats.
Hitch