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Originally Posted by kindlekitten
yeah, I wish my mother had done this differently. she decided to wait for the one year anniversary. oh yay! lets reopen the wound!  |
I was widowed twelve years ago after nursing a dying, cancer-ridden husband for two years. I also waited for the anniversary before scattering his ashes. One feels that it is somehow symbolic, and it feels difficult to part with them before that - it is the finality that hurts.
My sympathies to you and your mother.
Nohmi
