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>> ... and she said "Fine." So she knows ...
Change the story on us, eh? You are either fibbing to hide the reality of this ... or you just conveniently forgot to tell us that your wife approved of the deal.
Personally, I have found that one's "original story" usually carries the most honest information. Subsequent "corrections" and "amendments" are usually added to deflect criticism ... or guilt.
>> ... I'm sure you're right that it makes my wife a little uncomfortable. But sometimes, she has to just be uncomfortable and trust me.
A most bizarre take on marriage and respect for one's spouse ...
>> ... Yes, it was intended as an act of kindness and nothing else. A way to make her 40th B-day special for a good reason ...
You continue to kid yourself. You want to be in this woman's life ... in direct defiance of your wife's true wishes.
I will stop the "marriage counseling mode." We all read your original post.
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