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09-19-2017, 01:06 PM | #30827 | |
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Keep meditating, listen to relaxing music and read relaxing books eventually it will level off and you'll feels loads better and go on with your life. I look forward to that day I can do this till then I keep putting one foot in front of the other till I'm through this mess. Sent from my XT1528 |
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09-19-2017, 01:06 PM | #30828 | |
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After my grandfather's death it turns out my grandparents didn't keep their end of the bargain and had put in their will that my father would be able to buy the building for the current value as a building which was rented out (which is less than when it isn't rented out). To top it off, after the fire in 2013 my father spend almost all his savings on getting the home livable and store up and running again. Partially because my uncle, who was my grandmother's guardian by that time, had cancelled the homeowners insurance and had "forgotten" to take out a new one. When the store was up and running again the whole Family Thing started (we assume the timing was intentional). My uncle wanted to sell the building because there wasn't enough money (there was, the courts later agreed with that). He offered it to my father for a certain amount, assuming my father wouldn't be able to get the money. And before the deadline he had set for my father he had signed an sales agreement with someone else. The judge agrees with us. My uncle can still appeal, though according to our lawyer he doesn't have much chance. As I said, I should be happy, but I don't trust it when things are going well. |
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09-19-2017, 03:54 PM | #30829 |
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In my experience of highly-stressful familial/inheritance/fight scenarios, of which, unfortunately, I have a ton of same, it takes a while for that whole High Anxiety fight/flight response to simmer down. And you are likely having attacks because while one part of you wants, desperately, to believe that it's over, your logical brain is afraid to, and that's why you're even more stressed now. PLUS, you are probably thinking of ways in which your losing Uncle can make life even more miserable for you. Family, right? Congrats on the win, and give it a few days. I suspect that when your next day off is in sight, you will probably sleep like the dead. ;-) Hitch |
09-19-2017, 05:30 PM | #30830 | |
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I thought your father owned the business outright. So for now, just keep breathing. |
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09-19-2017, 06:07 PM | #30831 |
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Seriously?
Well, the nadir cometh.
Today, on the KDP forums, a new-to-it publisher asked: "what's a paperback?" I'm like...really? Is it really possible to believe that a human who INTENDS to be a published author, doesn't know what a frakking paperback is???? Hitch |
09-19-2017, 06:25 PM | #30832 |
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That is awfully unbelievable. It sounds like the person isn't a reader -- in which case what business have they of trying to publish?? (imho)
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09-19-2017, 06:41 PM | #30833 | |
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I swear, this sort of thing is bloody killing me. Spoiler:
I realize that this is small beans, compared to people having their lives, their homes, wiped out in hurricanes and earthquakes, though, of course. That being said, it's my world, locked in here with the loonies, and it's making me Hitch |
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09-19-2017, 06:45 PM | #30834 |
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Well, and this is an ebook forum, so we can empathize with this kind of craziness!
Apparently southern IL and California both had 3.9 (small beans) earthquakes today. The place (planet) is falling to pieces around us. |
09-19-2017, 07:04 PM | #30835 | |
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09-19-2017, 07:10 PM | #30836 |
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09-19-2017, 08:50 PM | #30837 | |
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09-19-2017, 09:06 PM | #30838 |
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And, what do people mean when they keep talking about "clockwise?" I have a clock, and the numbers just change! There's no direction to it!
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09-19-2017, 09:23 PM | #30839 |
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That is so stupid to almost seem intentional. Like they were *trying* to be witty about ebooks and say "what's a paperback" to imply printed books are out of date. Yikes.
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Despite the fact that it'll cost him money and he hasn't got much chance to win I am afraid he'll appeal. Just the thought of going through everything again. This court case took three and a half years for it to finish. I'm not sure I can take another three and a half years. However, I do realize it's my uncle who should be afraid. Remember the documents he only wanted to share if we paid €1500? The solicitor dealing with my grandmother's estate convinced him to share at least some of it. We got a tiny fraction and we found out a couple of things. We already knew he had let my grandmother pay for his window insurance, we also found out she paid for his and his partner's funeral insurance and he used my grandmother's bank account to buy credits for a sex dating website. He had promised more documents when he returned from his vacation, he returned over month ago and we haven't got it yet. We did send a letter to the judge overseeing his guardianship of his mother, she wanted us to sign a statement basically saying he did everything right. We won't, and explained why. We are going to try to get all the documents and see if he committed more fraud and we will try to get all the money back. Considering the judge has also decided that everyone should pay their own legal costs (he used my grandmother's money to pay for a court case where we had summoned him personally) the money he owes the heirs has risen to at least €30000. Quote:
The exercises seem to help. So far I've also been able to hold of the muscle ache that always comes when my anxiety attack lasts long or is bad. |
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