06-20-2017, 10:55 PM | #31 |
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Mom is slated to restart Radiation and Chemo tomorrow. They're going to try giving her a smaller dose of the Chemo meds in hopes that they won't make her as sick as they did this last time. She's still at Monroe Manor though she is feeling a bit better and has been able to eat and keep food down, something that she wasn't able to do for a while. She lost 20 lbs over the last month or so she was so sick.
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07-01-2017, 03:17 AM | #33 |
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The latter half of this last week got off to a rocky start. On Wednesday night a tornado came through the area outside of town and so we got some very bad weather for a few hrs. I was at church and the lights went out while we were just getting started. Later I ended up at the E.R. My Dr. had taken me completely off one of my blood pressure meds and I was getting a bit of tachycardia. Of course it scared me a bit which just added to the rapid heart beat. They took an EKG, blood samples, and a chest x-ray. In the end they gave me some of the same med that I had been taken off of and some baby aspirins, kept me under observation for a bit and then sent me home. Over at the manor they gathered the residents into the central part of the building (away from windows) during the storm. Mom's had a few more treatments and they think the radiation is helping. Also she seems to be keeping food down.
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07-19-2017, 02:28 PM | #34 |
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Well things are looking up. Mom is almost done with her treatments. I think she is done with Chemo and finishes her Radiation on Aug. 1st then they will do scans to see if the cancer is gone etc. Also we are moving downstairs to a ground floor apt. also on Aug. 1st. The actual move won't be fun of course but once it's done and things are sorted out things will hopefully go a bit better. A bonus is that my fiance (Lisa) will be able to visit. Being in a wheelchair she has a problem with stairs. So not only will it make it less likely that mom will fall but I will be able to spend more time with Lisa as well.
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That last part is awesome.
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We were going to have a ceremony. Had the place, had the band, (both free), started working on the guest list. Promptly decided that we would have to invite a long time family friend (that I consider my brother) and many of his coworkers. He works in law enforcement. We eloped. Both of us had been married before. I'm divorced and he was widowed. (Each of those brings their own set of baggage. ) Yes, we have had our share of problems. Best advice is don't let family and friends take up all your time. Excluding health problems of course. |
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Now as to the money factor, when we got married he was making $8 an hour with at least $50 or $100 coming out every week to repay a pretty good size loan. I have never asked exactly how much because it was at the time none of my business. I also didn't want to inadvertently upset him by asking. I do know it was somewhere between 5 and 10 thousand. In all honesty, we were both starting over with pretty much nothing. So don't let a lack of money stand in your way. As to premarital counseling: no church and no money so no counseling. All our friends and family guessed we might last 6 months. As of this writing it has been 26 years, 8 months and 6 days. We have battled alcoholism, lost too many people, moves, job changes, quit smoking, and numerous other things. So if we can do it, you can do it. The thing is we talk about everything. We have both done things that were fairly uncomfortable to one of us but that is part of life. It was done for the other person. Just keep talking to each other and everything else should work out. |
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Good advice. I think probably that's one of the big problems in the world today. People just don't talk to one another. Whether it's a couple or countries. I know Lisa was wondering just this afternoon how things will work out (as far as living arrangements). Myself I don't think that God would let us get together and stay together this long if we weren't meant to be together and therefore he will provide the help that is needed as things develop. I visit mom and Lisa when I get out to the Manor. On Saturday Lisa, her sisters, their mom and me are going to get together at the Manor and mom will be there as well (if she feels up to it).
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Well we've been friends for several years now, but we started dating on Halloween last year. I had asked her out before then but she wasn't ready to date at the time.
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07-25-2017, 02:54 AM | #43 |
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Mom is back in the hospital. Not sure how long she'll be there. Went in late Friday night I gather. The hdd of my new (refurbished) netbook went bad so I had to find a replacement hdd and os disk. Got lucky there and found both on ebay. Right now all my internet connection is via my Kindle Fire tablet.
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07-25-2017, 10:52 PM | #45 |
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Mom is back at the Manor tonight. The hospital released her earlier this evening.
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