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View Poll Results: Do you like kids (under 5 years old)? | |||
I love 'em | 38 | 35.85% | |
They ok | 33 | 31.13% | |
I love them most when they're sleeping | 18 | 16.98% | |
They're too noisy, demanding and/or self-centered | 36 | 33.96% | |
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06-23-2009, 02:56 PM | #121 | |
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Someone has to decide, in your view of raising children, what values they are raised with. Obviously, there couldn't be different religions, cultural values, or ethnic groups. How do you deal with the many differing personalities little ones have? With the individualistic thoughts, and those that just don't 'fit' into the molds? This is a really scary thought for me. |
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06-23-2009, 03:18 PM | #122 | |
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What do you mean by parents having too much control over their kids? In what way? I don't understand this. Generally speaking, I believe that's part of the problem these days . . . parents don't have enough control over their kids. Seems the kids have all the control now, and not necessarily in a good way. |
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06-23-2009, 03:29 PM | #123 |
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I believe this is a good example of what happens when parents become disenfranchised. Hillary may have thought it takes a village to raise a chid, but that village damn well better start with some parents that have some roots, and love, and purpose
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06-23-2009, 03:41 PM | #125 | |
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Yet, they also want their children to be accepted in the community (e.g. taking them to restaurants). I think it was even reported in one of the threads here that someone sitting in a park watching children play - was viewed with obvious suspicion by a gaggle of mothers, until they were made uncomfoprtable enough to leave. I saw a lost child crying in a shopping centre - but no member of the public dared approach him to offer help for fear of the accusations that could be made. We call it hysterical parent syndrome - they're far too overprotective imho. When they do finally let them off the leash the kids often lack the social skills to cope. (But in all this, it's worth remembering there are parents doing a good job raising kids who are a credit to them, and a great addition to the community. I'm not trying to suggets they're all bad.) |
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06-23-2009, 04:00 PM | #126 | ||
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06-23-2009, 04:32 PM | #127 |
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The trouble with this issue is that, I think, everybody agrees that there really are some people who just should not be allowed to breed, or. if they are, they are not fit to bring up the kids themselves.
Trouble with that, of course, is, who decides? If it was my decision, I am sure that I would come up with criteria which others disagreed with - I'm equally sure that whoever made the decisions, somebody would disagree with them. I don't think I have an answer to this and I'd be amazed if anybody could come up with an answer everybody agreed with. |
06-23-2009, 04:39 PM | #128 | |
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I really don't like those random screaming hords of kids that I see so often, or the ones that scream in the restaurant for no apparent reason while be ignored by their parents (or maybe that's why they are screaming). I enjoy my son and a few of his friends who are actually polite and interested in what is going on around them. I have to confess that I wasn't really thrilled with even my own child until he started to interact with me at 6 month, when he started to talk at 2 yrs things started to pick up, now that he is 5 yrs old I really enjoy spending time with him. All those hrs of reading to him are paying off too, we wanted to sleep in a bit on the weekend and sent him back to his room to play. When we went into his room later that day his bed was covered with the books he had 'read' while we were sleeping. Made me proud. |
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06-23-2009, 04:51 PM | #129 |
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this whole touching (or not) kids is incredibly out of control. in addition to the other things that I do for fun (?) I work with Girl Scouts and teach skiing. quite often these little girls aren't getting effective parenting anywhere else and the parents at least figured out that Scouting might help... well sometimes they just need a hug. boy!!! if you're going to do that, you'd best make sure about 99 people are watching and EVERYONE can see your hands!
last year I had a skier fall (duh! it's ski school!), and when I helped her up I kind of boosted her by the butt... sometimes that's about all you can get hold of. sure enough later on I had to answer why "my ski school teacher touched my butt!!!" also this is a situation where kids get scared, even hurt a little and they need a pat and a hug to get going again. once again! you have to be VERY careful! anyway... I'm jumping into the deep end and starting foster parent classes tonight. |
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My son was almost brought to tears when a long time friend who goes to a different school started to sing "You're a loser, I'm a winner" in that lovely jeering sing song voice kids have, my son had never been exposed to that kind of thing before. This boy would never have done such a thing the previous year, but 2 months exposure to that behaviour from older kids and he was all over it. It took a while for his mother to notice/admit that her son's behaviour had changed and start to make adjustments in it. She had on those "not my child" blinders we all wear from time to time. I admire you so much for this!!! I have often thought about being a foster parent but I know that the amount of time and attention that child would need to adjust to a new situation is more than I can give right now. I have to work hard to make the time to play and read with my son so that he has a good foundation to fall back on. I am in awe of the people who are willing and able to do such a selfless thing and make a child's life better. I know you will be one of the 'good' foster parents. |
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My second was that I wonder where they'd find mothers and fathers (or should we just call them womb donors and sperm donors?) willing to beget/bear a child and then just hand him/her over to the state. Sounds like a solution to population pressure to me. My third reaction was that we may be headed there - in the US there's been talk of mandatory preschool so that kids are in state-run schools from about the age of 3 on up. As much as families may struggle to raise kids, I don't see a single government in the world today that I'd trust to do a better job of it. Maybe government efforts should be spent in trying to find ways to support families in doing what they're designed to do. Children aren't part of an assembly line manufacturing process. No parent is perfect, and certainly many of them are better than others. But kids learn primarily by example - seeing their parents support a family and just live life prepares them for when they, in turn, enter the 'real world'. |
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06-23-2009, 09:30 PM | #134 |
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Actually, if you are going to take it that far, we don't even need women to bear children. They've been doing it in test tubes for years..........
That would free the women to work even harder for the state. |
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When I worked in a high school as an interpreter one of the things they mentioned in orientation was that hugs are fine....but if you hug one gender you'd best be treating the other gender the same way. Kind of hard to do in girl scouts, I suppose. |
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