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Do you look at the forum members that have in their signature the number of books that they read this year and decide that there is no point in reading another book this year because you aren't going to read more than them? Should we demand that those who read 100 books per year not rub this in the faces of those who don't have the time for it? Quote:
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But it's symptomatic of the results-oriented society: Everything is a contest and a competition, even recreation. |
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Our summer program at our library was just sitting down and listening to live speakers, and it was a lottery where they'd had out free books every week. They gave us coupons for reading too, but it was like for every 7 books you read.
They need to do it on a per grade level basis, one winner per grade. But honestly, they're making such a big deal for something that probably won't even be a big problem next year since he's going to be in 5th grade and he'd have reached that age limit where the program isn't even suitable for him anymore. We only had a two books out limit at our school, but my mom always went in there and grabbed a bunch after hours for me when I was in elementary school. I think we had like three reading programs if I remember correctly... The teachers made us read everyday, then there was the one where we had to read all the Bluebonnet Award winning books, and then another. They don't do the third one anymore, which I'm perfectly thrilled that my brother never had to do. The way it worked is that every book was numbered with points. You had to get like 20 points every six weeks. The points were based on review questions you'd have to go and answer on the program in the library. I think the biggest issue with it, especially because I could never do it and I knew books from back to front (because I usually read pages a few times before flipping the page ![]() Thankfully that was one of the things that went when they started scaling down on the budget. Because it was just awful. I got a lot of notes sent home about never getting any points, but honestly, it was just that hard to do and I ended up just blowing it off for that reason. |
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I'm not even vaguely sure whether it is better to strive for excellence be happy if you barely muddle through life. Both have their pitfalls. Few of us reach a perfect balance.
I do think that schools and libraries should encourage people to do the best they can and occasionally this is the case. I did very well in school until the day I came across a teacher asking my brother why he wasn't as smart as his sister. Even at 8 years old I knew there was something wrong there and decided to not be so smart. I was then content to simply pass every year and was actually sent to a psychiatrist at the schools expense to try and find out why. Luckily I enjoyed the psychiatrist and went for 2 years before they decided I was a lost cause. Probably not the reason I dropped out at 15 but may have helped. I was not good in sports, or music, which annoyed me, but I can't recall resenting those who were. I tried out every year for sports, and took piano and violin lessons, but they wouldn't let me play and I was the only child in the entire school who was not allowed to be in a group sing at the music festival because I could throw the whole class off tune. Even the church didn't want me to sing hymns. I was truly terrible. Didn't stop me from trying though even in high school, and I didn't resent those who could sing and play baseball. Envied them, and admired them, but didn't think they should not be allowed to compete just so I could finally be the best. And where does it stop? Disqualify one child this year, another the next, there will still only be one winner, one runner up, etc. Giving everyone a prize is fine, but it doesn't change the fact that they didn't win. Schools are less competitive overall these days and many pass everybody to avoid traumatization. Thus in many cases Johnny can't read and is totally unprepared for a life where he must read or complete his assignments or show up for work every day. And where would we be without those of a competitive and stubborn nature who strive to become better or are smarter than average and don't get it beaten out of them? It would be a much poorer world without them. Helen |
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Maybe my views are too idealistic. Perhaps I have seen too many colleagues turn to alcohol or other drugs, some to escape the race for a bit, others to boost their performance -- so that they could be better, better than someone else. |
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Some people are naturally motivated, some (more?) need a carrot on a stick. Giving everyone a prize is doing the carrot on the stick people a disservice perhaps. Personally I have found more people resort to alcohol and drugs do to being unemployable or being stuck on the bottom rung of the rat race with no chance for advancement or even a living wage. Lots of sober people who are not completely unhappy in all walks of life though. Perhaps your successful colleagues are unlucky in that they can afford to pay for alcohol or drugs, but I am inclined to say boohoo even though I know it is unworthy of me. I guess I would rather be a reasonably well off substance abuser than a dirt poor one given the choice. Helen |
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I was speaking of achievers, not people who put achieving over everything, but those who see develop new ideas and/or those who do something because it should be done. Someone, or multiple someones, figured out how to start a fire, build a hut, plant grain, fashion clay pots and fight disease. Frankly I am for the most part happy that they did. There are those who would be happier living in caves as long as everyone else had to do it too. For them it is definitely preferable that everyone gets a prize. Me, I do like my sliced bread and electricity and adequate medical care etc. ![]() Helen |
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With regard to "The Race" you mentioned, I've already tuned out as much as possible. If I've got enough to live comfortably, it's good enough for me. I'm not looking to acquire more and more, and move to a bigger house as soon as I can, and so on. If possible, I'd rather live in a cabin in a forest somehwere. But, as long as there are people who think it's fully justified (and even reasonable) to earn $50 million in one year, other people will try to get there too, or at least, as far as possible, and keep racing. Last edited by Katsunami; 08-20-2013 at 07:49 PM. |
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I think my chief concern is really only the "pitching people against each other" thing, like in a rat race. I feel it's very possible to achieve great things, and motivate people, without the gold stars for doing well. It's not about wanting to encourage mediocrity, but about motivating kids to improve for reasons other than want to win.
I still recommend Alfie Kohn's "No Contest". (I like all his books, unsurprisingly. ![]() |
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