![]() |
#16 |
Beepbeep n beebeep, yeah!
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 11,726
Karma: 8255450
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: La Crosse, Wisconsin, aka America's IceBox
Device: iThingie, KmkII, I miss Zelda!
|
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#17 | |
High Priestess
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 5,761
Karma: 5042529
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Montreuil sous bois, France
Device: iPad Pro 9.7, iPhone 6 Plus
|
Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() |
Advert | |
|
![]() |
#18 | |
Wizard
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 2,737
Karma: 635747
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Northeast Ohio, USA
Device: PRS-900
|
Quote:
Given that it is men's thoughts and reactions to the immodestly dressed women. Given that telling women to wear more clothes would be repressive Given that telling men not to look at or react to immodestly dressed women would not be fair or practical, or even possible in some cases. Given that continued exposure to a stimulus will gradually reduce the reaction to that stimulus. The only reasonable conclusion, for the safety of the human race, is for women to be as immodest as possible in their clothing choices! |
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#19 | |
The Dank Side of the Moon
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 35,891
Karma: 119230421
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Denver, CO
Device: Kindle2; Kindle Fire
|
Quote:
Careful Dave, you might get your eye plucked out. ![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#20 | |
the snarky blue one
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 6,001
Karma: 3877825
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: deep in the heart
Device: PRS500, 505 & 600, PRST1 & T2, Kindle PW, Moto Razr, Galaxy Tab 2-10"
|
Quote:
![]() And it's the spread of adultery in a society which increases earthquakes? Even if this were true . . . men are not complicit in this? They are blameless because at the sight of some hair or boobage, they become weak and mindless, incapable of free will or self control? ![]() ![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() |
Advert | |
|
![]() |
#21 | ||
Professional Adventuress
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 13,368
Karma: 50260224
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: The Olympic Peninsula on the OTHER Washington! (the big green clean one on the west coast!)
Device: Kindle, the original! Times Two! and gifting an International Kindle
|
Quote:
![]() Quote:
I was taking classes from an Imam when I was getting ready to go to Kuwait. I wanted to not be a cultural monster. he explained to me that all of the extreme measures taken towards covering women was not to repress women, it was because men were just completely incapable of controlling themselves in any circumstance, so it was decided that the easiest thing was to remove the temptations. |
||
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#22 |
Grand Sorcerer
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 8,478
Karma: 5171130
Join Date: Jan 2006
Device: none
|
See, that's where they lose me: The explicit facts that discount this theory are the continued existence of places like Los Angeles, New York, Las Vegas and Washington, DC, whilst simultaneously not explaining how you can have an earthquake in the middle of the uninhabited ocean.
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#23 | |
Grand Sorcerer
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 8,478
Karma: 5171130
Join Date: Jan 2006
Device: none
|
Quote:
![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#24 | |
New York Editor
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 6,384
Karma: 16540415
Join Date: Aug 2007
Device: PalmTX, Pocket eDGe, Alcatel Fierce 4, RCA Viking Pro 10, Nexus 7
|
Quote:
Our culture presumes a man can control himself, and that the controls will be internal. Their culture assumes he can't, and you must limit the provocation, so the controls will be external. Latin America is slowly moving out of that mindset. It's changing nowadays, but 50 years ago or so, young males were taught that they were hot blooded and passionate, and left alone with an attractive young woman, they would be unable to control themselves and would have their way with her. Young women were taught that they were weak and feminine and passive, and would of course be unable to resist the attentions of the male. The culture got around the obvious problems by making sure young unmarried women weren't left alone with men. They were always accompanied by the duenna, an older married female relative who served as a chaperon. Latin America got the attitudes from Spain, and Spain probably got them from the Arabs, during the period when the Moorish Arabs controlled much of the Iberian peninsula. There are occasional nasty incidents over here when male exchange students from middle eastern countries come over here to study. Because their culture assumes they can't control themselves, they never learned how to, and relationships with female fellow students become problematic. I've also heard horror stories of women who married middle eastern men over here. Everything was fine as long as they were over here. When he took her back home among his family, he became a dramatically different person, and the relationship rapidly became unbearable for her. There are other implications as well. In the middle east, relations among families are critical, and family networks provide many functions that might be the province of local government here. Young unmarried daughters are valuable currency in such relationships, and marriages are often things arranged by families. A marriage is a political and economic alliance between the families involved, made for the benefit of the families. An unmarried woman who loses her virginity out of wedlock is debased currency, and a destabilizing factor in her society. The response in some places can be having her stoned to death. Ultimately, all such behavior evolved to aid the survival of the society. The individual is not important. The problem is that cultural reflexes like that can persist long after their value has passed, because such cultural reflexes change with glacial slowness. ______ Dennis Last edited by DMcCunney; 04-20-2010 at 01:40 PM. |
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#25 |
High Priestess
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 5,761
Karma: 5042529
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Montreuil sous bois, France
Device: iPad Pro 9.7, iPhone 6 Plus
|
Great explanation Dennis. I tried to express something similar myself but got so muddled I didn't post
![]() Not sure about the part where the Spanish got this attitude from the Arabs though, because I'm not sure the Arabs had that mindset at the time. But it's just a feeling, I may be wrong. Hey, maybe they got it from the Spanish? |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#26 | |
Guru
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 834
Karma: 102419
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Vienna, Austria
Device: iPhone
|
My wife rocks my world ... I hope that does not mean she's promiscuous!
![]() Quote:
![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#27 | |
New York Editor
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 6,384
Karma: 16540415
Join Date: Aug 2007
Device: PalmTX, Pocket eDGe, Alcatel Fierce 4, RCA Viking Pro 10, Nexus 7
|
Quote:
There's an interesting process taking place in Turkey at the moment, as Islamic scholars re-examine the Hadith. The Hadith is a collection of things said by Mohammed, as reported by relatives and close associates. It is second only to the Koran as the source for Islamic law, and forms the basis for things like the prohibition on a woman traveling alone. The scholars are attempting to understand the context in which the pronouncements were made. When Mohammed said that women should not be permitted to travel alone, for example, the motive probably wasn't a matter of keeping them properly subservient to men. It was intended to protect them, because when the statement was made, it simply wasn't safe for an unaccompanied woman to travel by herself. Given that, did holding the prohibition still make sense in a time and place where it was safe for a woman to travel by herself? Did the Prophet really intend it to be permanent, or was it a response to a specific set of conditions that could be discarded when those conditions no longer applied? I applaud the effort, but I don't expect the process to be easy or peaceful. Most of this stuff resides on a gut level, and responses are reflex. Questions of the gut level belief can provoke violent responses. (We see that over here among fundamentalist religious types who aren't Muslim.) It opens the question that there may just be cultures that are fundamentally incompatible. Every culture faces basic problems involved in people living together in groups, where agreement must be had on what behavior is acceptable, and every culture comes up with a different set of solutions that work for it. What happens when cultures with incompatible solutions meet? Chances are, one or the other either changes dramatically or is destroyed. ______ Dennis |
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#28 | |
Grand Sorcerer
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 5,161
Karma: 81026524
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Italy
Device: Kindle3, Ipod4, IPad2
|
Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#29 |
The Dank Side of the Moon
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 35,891
Karma: 119230421
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Denver, CO
Device: Kindle2; Kindle Fire
|
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#30 | |
Grand Sorcerer
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 5,161
Karma: 81026524
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Italy
Device: Kindle3, Ipod4, IPad2
|
Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
|
![]() |
||||
Thread | Thread Starter | Forum | Replies | Last Post |
Blame Morpheus ... | derekweb | Introduce Yourself | 16 | 05-28-2010 06:29 AM |
Hello from Chile the land of earthquakes | JoeDuran | Introduce Yourself | 7 | 05-21-2010 12:57 PM |
Courier killed, iPad to blame? | scottjl | Apple Devices | 34 | 05-03-2010 03:08 PM |
Blame Canada! | llreader | News | 31 | 02-19-2010 06:29 PM |
Place the blame where it belongs. | acprinter | News | 23 | 04-28-2009 05:24 AM |