Thanks Tribble, will try that (I thought I had, but never mind, lol).
Commander, choosing which connection to use when it's actually trying to connect (whipping out the stylus like the fastest gun in the West before it actually goes ahead like a single-minded and pig-headed bull), is
not what I call "setting a default connection", and since it hadn't downloaded the instructions regarding this change, I was stumped.
Thanks for the tip.