[Spoon Man]

First I would like to state that this does not come out of religious conviction but experience and life.

It is unfortunate today that males are being raised up to self gratify. Too often I've seen guys (men, boys, older boys) operate in a relationship with the idea of "getting theirs" rather than actually caring for the other person. This is a grossly unfortunate phenomena today that is resulting in the degradation of female's self-esteem, particularly the young females.
Too often have I seen girls taken advantage of emotionally and sexually, too often have I seen girls resort to cutting, or burning, or some other form of self mutilation because the males in their lives were to focused on the size of their cock to stop and think about the emotions of this person whom they are taking advantage of.
Too often have I seen fathers to self absorbed to care about that little girl who is looking through the cracks in the door as he looks at porn instead of spending time with her, causing her to think that she has to look like them in order to get his attention, and as her personifies the rest of the male gender to her that is how she has to look to get any type of attention from them. Sure, she'll see that there are some guys who don't think this way, but she won't believe it because its been subconsciously ingrained.
Too often have I seen the other side, where fathers are too embarrassed to explain love to their children. These men don't want to educate their children about sex, instead they'd rather let someone else do it because they are too damned afraid to think that their little girl or little boy would be in an apple tree on her 16th birthday with her boyfriend who, once again, can't see past his dick.

The fact of the matter is that we have a job to protect, its a naturally occurring impulse in males, and we need to heed it more often than not.Sure, we live in the age of the liberated female who can take care of herself, but not all women subscribe to that belief, and its those that don't or can't that we need to protect, both emotionally and physically. I'm sick of seeing guys who don't consider their girlfriend's emotions when considering sex, or how she will actually feel when they break up. It infuriates me to no end when I here a girl say "My boyfriend wanted it so bad, so I had sex with him on his birthday and now I feel like shit because he broke up with me and I feel used and hurt and dirty."
Now, there are some that would say that said girl should have thought of this before, but that is a huge load of bull you've eaten. As bad as it may sound, a large number of females, particularly at a young age, can't see past their desire to be loved.

Its a sad thing that the majority of fathers can't see past their experiences and try to understand the woman that they sleep with so that they can understand their own daughter, and most of you won't believe what I'm writing or want to listen to it, but every word I write is true, it may need some polishing (this is day 20-something running on 3-4hrs sleep) but I shit you not, I've seen this all play out before and its heartbreaking. I've counseled too many girls who are broken inside because theirs not been a male man-enough to control his impulses and take care of her emotionally. I've seen too many girls stuck with abusive boyfriends because every once in a while he says something nice, but then he throws her on the bed/couch/floor and uses her, then hits her. So guys, keep it in your pants and consider the consequences for her, both emotionally and physically. If you can't think like that, then you need to step away from the relationship.