Originally Posted by Stitchawl
Personally, I feel that there are folks who have language skills and folks who don't. I'm one of the 'don'ts.'  Just like various other skills, some people have natural ability for playing a musical instument and some have no talent at all. Some can do trig functions in their heads while others can't remember the multiplication tables.
As much as I try to learn languages, want to learn languages, and am in a position to use the languages I learn on a daily basis (heck, my wife doesn't even speak all that much English!) I'm still always stuck at the 'This is a dog. This is a brown dog.' stage.  Doesn't do me much good when trying to discuss quantum physics or Maslow's theory of Self-Actualization.
Although I do better with the Romance languages than the Asiatic or Middle Eastern, I still can't make coherent sentences with most. I have to settle for just using a noun and a verb or adjective.  I usually leave out most of the 'grammar' words. Fortunately, this works in most languages other than Japanese. (The fellow who invented Japanese grammar was NOT a very nice guy...) And it works. It's communication. The people we talk with understand that we are not a native speakers and give us a lot of latitude. We still communicate. Oddly enough, there is a direct relationship to the amount of alcohol consumed to the increased ability to understand each other! 
The important thing is to make an effort. The local folks always appreciate it, except for that rare one or two nasties that you'll find even in your home countries. You've probably by now even seen a few of the younger folk with Chinese or Japanese characters tattooed on their arms or backs. Won't they be surprised to discover that when translated it reads; " Cantonese Beef with Black Bean Sauce?" 
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