Thread: Who pays after the first date if both make about the same money?
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Old 06-08-2009, 11:51 PM   #29
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Originally Posted by markbot View Post
A lot of people are saying...whoever asks....but what if it is like the 10th date and you are a couple by then...thus it is more of a dynamic situation in which no one is really the invitee or invited. In that case...i guess u must all think they should split it evenly?
That's a good point, but I see it as a totally different situation. What you asked is about how to manage a relationship.

If there's a relationship, there is no dating although the couple may go out. Couples don't "date," although they may go out and call it one. While you're dating, you're getting to know the person and deciding whether you want a relationship.
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