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Originally Posted by no.guru
Ruth explains the way it happens for me. If you think women are the only ones doing the rejecting .. <ahem>.
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Ok, maybe I did not elaborate sufficiently, it is not expected of men to pay, it is nice and women do like it. We are more conscious of the fact that the times have changed and how hoard money is earned. We do offer to pay and sometimes its taken and sometimes its not. When it is expected that the girl chips in that's when its a turn off, same way when the girl stands to go to the ladies room the minute she spies the check coming. There is something nostalgic, chivalrous and romantic when a guy says "Don't worry about it babe, I'm taking care of it."