[Cabe]

And there's me thinking it had something to do with a cup of tea and some form of breakfast choice.

Back on topic....

Unfortunately forums (and other textual communication forms) have a huge disadvantage, the lack of the component of verbal inflection and body language can lead to unintended inferences.

You post reminded me of a poem

I was angry with my friend:
I told my wrath, my wrath did end.
I was angry with my foe:
I told it not, my wrath did grow.

- William Blake

Shortened for brevity.


I hope all turns out right in the end.