[Deskisamess]

Men in positions of power are very good at making sure their "victim" doesn't know they are being victimized, until after the fact. I knew 2 men like this, snakes they were, and very good at manipulation and getting what they wanted. They were charming, most everyone in their orbits loved them. Until later when it all came out. While I didn't fall victim to the sexual manipulation, I did think the one guy was just the nicest guy, never saw what he really was until after the crap hit the fan. My hindsight is 20/20, but boy I missed it for many years.

When the victim is much much younger, it's even more distasteful. The men I knew didn't break any legal laws, but they sure broke some moral ones.