I'm reading T.Kingfisher's "A Sorceress Comes to Call" (really good, highly recommended if you like fantasy/horror/comedy of manners). I've seen people writing a lot of "Aaaaaaaaggghh!" about a specific scene in the book, and I'm pretty sure it's coming up now.
I'm looking forward to it, but also apprehensive
Here are some of the comments, avoid if you dislike vague spoilers and are planning to read it (or if you dislike swearing):