View Single Post
Old 10-05-2023, 03:10 PM   #2066
Sirtel
Grand Sorcerer
Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.Sirtel ought to be getting tired of karma fortunes by now.
 
Sirtel's Avatar
 
Posts: 13,756
Karma: 242733157
Join Date: Jan 2014
Location: Estonia
Device: Kobo Sage & Libra 2
Quote:
Originally Posted by hildea View Post
That's an interesting point! Usually I prefer romances where none of the protagonists are assholes. Looking back, I can't remember any where a woman in a romantic pair was an asshole -- at least not without some serious mitigating circumstances, like planning to betray someone because she was in a desperate situation, or being antagonistic towards someone because she had been told lies about his actions.
I don't mind occasional assholey behavior from the protagonists (actually too nice main characters irritate me - I'm no paragon myself), but I'd like to see it in women too, not only in men. "The hero is a jerk, but will redeem himself by diligent groveling in the end" trope has gotten pretty old. Let them both be a bit of a jerks from time to time, like real people are. And no groveling from either; there are other, more mature ways to reach a HEA.

Of course I'm not sure if this is even something most romance readers want. Perhaps the average (female) reader wants the heroine to be better than the hero; it's even possible that seeing the hero groveling excites some women. At least this is the impression I've got, because this trope crops up with some regularity.
Sirtel is offline   Reply With Quote