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Old 04-20-2009, 12:23 PM   #31
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Originally Posted by HarryT View Post
A question for those people who are married:

It's a well-known fact that some people have a high sex-drive, and others don't. If you just weren't interested in sex, but your partner had a strong need for it, would you object to your partner going to see an escort for a purely "physical" experience with no emotional strings attacked?

Speaking as a single person, I can see nothing at all "wrong" with this, personally. It's simply providing a service, like any other service.
Conversely, would the same be true if you replaced the word physical (or sexual) with emotional? It's also common for one partner to have strong emotional needs while the other does not. If for whatever reason (overwork, stress, illness, etc.) one partner is not providing the emotional needs of the other, would it be objectionable for this partner to go outside the relationship to fulfill their purely emotional needs (even without the sex?)

Just asking . . .
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