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I wouldn't want my husband to stop watching at (what he thinks are) beautiful women. And I'll just look at (what I think are) beautiful men. Why shouldn't you enjoy looking at something you like? We will talk about it (ohh, I saw this beautiful man/woman the other day; did you see that man/woman; etc) and be happy to know that we have each other.
Is it cheating to look? I don't think so. You'd have to bandage your eyes otherwise. Or everybody should dress in bourkas... Devouring somebody with your eyes might be on the brink (that would mean you probably would love to do something more than looking...)
Personally, I think that people that don't want their partner even to look at the other gender, don't feel safe in their relation. They'll probably always afraid that their partner will leave them for somebody "more beautiful".
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