Unfortunately for me, by the time Christmas/Birthday/Anniversary/Friday rolls around and it is time to get the gift I just know she would love...she's already gotten it for herself.

Sooo I'm stuck with asking her to make sure she writes my name on the "from:" on gifts so I know that I got her, and the kids/grandkids/dogs/cats, something...
I mean seriously... even the totally frivolous, or sometimes scandalous

, gift ideas end up being duplicates....