Okay, I found
this guide, but don't understand the following:
Step:
5. Choose your patches from the files in the src folder
Enable patches in the files in the src folder (or use the overrides in kobopatch.yaml to keep your options separate).
HOW?
If the process is complicated, I'd love to hear how to just make sure the patch that ensures you are asked about updating is activated.
If there are a few cool patches and it's not too hard, I'm happy to have the full options...
7. Install the patches by copying KoboRoot.tgz into the .kobo folder of your device
If the patching succeeded, a file named KoboRoot.tgz will be created in the out folder. Copy it to the .kobo folder of your device. Safely remove your device once you are finished.
Is this created by the .bat file, because its not in the folder after extracting Kobopatch_4.32.1901.zip...