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Originally Posted by JSWolf
What problem is it? What happens to you because of this? If you don't have an answer, then it's akin to hypochondria.
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You don't seem to comprehend that others think differently than you do.
The difference in our thinking about the situation we are now discussing boils down to proactive vs. reactive. You appear to want to wait until after you've had a problem, and then deal with it. You are (appear to be) reactive.
I prefer to try and predict a potential problem, and avoid it before it ever happens. I am proactive.
Your stress comes from dealing with problems (that have already occurred), my stress comes from worrying about them (in advance). In the end, you rarely worry, and I rarely have problems. Who is right? Neither. We just think differently.