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Originally Posted by meeera
That is a crappy evasion, and you know it. The problem I have in this conversation is you.
My key point was this, which I will repeat since you have ignored it:
"Every single word you have said here has downplayed and minimised the violence I am talking about. You ooze minimisation, dismissal, and victim blaming. "
I am talking about violence. You are persistently dodging, weaving, and minimising/erasing violent attacks as "bad relationships" and "being accosted" and "family situations". That is the behaviour I'm criticising. You can't address violence if you are pretending it doesn't exist.
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No, I am trying to be polite. You obviously had a traumatic event happen to you when you are young. You are trying to force my statements on self defense into your personal experience. You obviously want to have your personal feelings validated. Nothing I have said minimizes, downplays or blames the victim. That is purely your personal projection.