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Originally Posted by meeera
Indecently assaulted, not "accosted". Again, I am talking about violence, not people being mean. Not threats. Violence. And that was not something my father had ever done to me, so why would I yell "you're not my father"? I was about 12. I was frozen. I was hideously embarrassed. I assumed it must have been my fault somehow.
Again, I'm talking about violence, not euphemistic "family situations". The parents are usually the perpetrators. What "help" would you suggest to the parents?
Dates who violently attack them, you mean? Rapists?
I.AM.TALKING.ABOUT.VIOLENCE. Battering. Beating. Rape. Not "bad relationships". This is overwhelmingly the sort of violence women and children are targeted for.
Every single word you have said here has downplayed and minimised the violence I am talking about. You ooze minimisation, dismissal, and victim blaming. I know this is not what you want to hear, and I realise you are unlikely to listen. But this is what is happening. Jesus H Christ, dude, I'm disclosing child molestation and rape and you're wittering about "bad relationships".
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I'm sorry you were harmed, but it's not always about your personal situation. If you are having trouble dealing with your personal situation, then I would suggest you seek appropriate help.