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Originally Posted by DiapDealer
Bad advice, in my opinion. You talk (or argue, or feedback) while the conversation is fresh and everyone is present and engaged. I don't know about you, but I don't have weeks to invest in individual stop and go conversations. Especially with relative strangers.
You're quite free to point out where I've suggested anyone else has to experience it "my way." I'm not looking to "win," here. So why are you fighting?
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As you have so aptly demonstrated, people who prefer to argue rarely process what the other person is actually saying, thus it is better listen and try to understand what point the other person is making. It's called active listening. If you tried it, then perhaps the reason why others might not want to read the same way you do wouldn't still be incomprehensible.