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Originally Posted by pwalker8
One of the best pieces of advise that I read some years ago is that when getting feedback, don't try to argue about the feedback, but rather say thank you and think about it over night, and only then come back with either questions for clarification or state why you disagree.
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Bad advice, in my opinion. You talk (or argue, or feedback) while the conversation is fresh and everyone is present and engaged. I don't know about you, but I don't have weeks to invest in individual stop and go conversations. Especially with relative strangers.
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Originally Posted by pwalker8
Some people think linearly. Just because you don't and have read books that are not linear doesn't invalidate that point however much you may assure me that you personally read non linear books. Just because you experience something a certain way doesn't mean that everyone else has to experience it that way as well.
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You're quite free to point out where I've suggested anyone else has to experience it "my way." I'm not looking to "win," here. So why are you fighting?