G'day Marc and welcome.
I am sure that you will find all sorts of help and information here, plus, please remember what DG has advised. The monkeys here are indeed to be avoided at all costs.
They're lethal I tell 'ya.
Just one small item that I disagree with: my little dog named Girly is the cutest, most adorable, most manipulate *people trainer* in the planet. Sorry about that.
I am so pleased for your sake that 'they've gone' and life can now return to normal.
If you enjoy pbooks, we have a great agency here called 'Dymocks", with lots of reading matter. I usually send my hubby in to get books for me, as I seem to come over all strange(OK stranger than usual) when entering as if Dracula has taken up residence in their foyer. But, that's just me, you might enjoy a browse along their aisles and the staff is most helpful and friendly.
Somehow,
I feel as if I have wandered in *The Twilight Zone*!!!