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Originally Posted by Cinisajoy
On doing stuff alone, hubby and I also have separate hobbies, separate computers, etc.
So I understand.
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A bit OT:
We have separate computers. Her way of using a computer is... uh... extremely cluttered as compared to mine.
She loves to read paper books. I only read paper books if they give me something special, such as illustrations. She only buys (second hand) books, mostly paperbacks or ex-library books, and doesn't care too much about how they look.
I buy only hard covers, either new, or in very good/like new condition, and they're mostly special or illustrated editions. If a book gets smeared or damaged, I'd freak out, because some of them are out of print editions that are 50+ years old and cost like €60+... _if_ you can even find them in good condition with dust jacket and all.
As she loves to eat and/or drink while reading, I won't even lend her my paper books. I don't forbid her much, if anything, except: No food or drink around my books, and electronics of which I'm the owner. With regard to her stuff (books, phone, laptop...) I don't really care, because she'll have to pay for the replacement herself if she ruins them by spilling drinks in them.
Except for living in the same house/appartment, very few things will actually change.