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Originally Posted by Katsunami
While I can understand that your husband took you away out of an unhealthy household with regard to your mother and sister (as far as I've been able to surmise from your posts), I think this isn't a healthy relationship either. Has your husband looked into the possibilities to getting help somehow?
'I don't know how you put up with it. I'd be at the "see a doctor, or get out" stage, myself.'
I'd have to agree with Hitch here.
My own relationship is great at the moment (although it's only been going for 9 months). We had one little 'fight', lasting about 10 seconds, when she snapped at me for something trivial after a long day. I told her that I absolutely don't tolerate irrational/idiotic behavior or fighting. If I did something you don't like, just tell me, explain why, and in what way you think it would be better. We haven't had a single argument since.
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I've ordered some stuff for my girlfriend that is about 50% cheaper in the UK and Germany than it is in the Netherlands.
Some of it was ordered in the UK, other parts were ordered through Amazon Germany, all on Sunday last week.
The stuff from the UK is already here, and Amazon Germany is still jacking around with shipping it!
- "Your order will be shipped soon."
- "Your order will be shipped on the 14th." (It wasn't shipped.)
- "Shipment is being prepared."
- "Your order will ship today."
- "Your order will be shipped soon." (???)
A different part is still at "Your order will be shipped soon."
Fracking Amazon Germany... come on! You've got 20+ of each in stock. It has been three days. Ship it already! I'm normally not very impatient, but seeing a product shipped from the UK in less than 3 days (Ordered on Sunday, sent on Monday, delivered on Wednesday) while Amazon Germany is still getting around to actually sending their stuff, three days after ordering it, sets my teeth on edge.
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Congratulations on the 9 months. Hubby and I dated for about 10 months before we married. So many years ago. We never fought either not till about four years into the marriage. I was so young and agreeable then. lol Now I speak my mind.
The soap episode blew over. We had a good day yesterday. The new Plum novel was released and my niece dropped off doughnuts. She works at Krispy Kreme. She also dropped off McDonald's so we had lunch. I spent the day listening to Hardcore Twenty-four and hubby played his Facebook games. We talked about the holidays and happy stuff.
We've been together 19 years next May so you have to understand you don't just walk away from someone when the going gets tough. I was sick during most of the early years he took care of me with minium complaining. lol Now he's sick and needs help and I'm patient enough to wait out his denial. These problems have only escalated in last three years. Money, stress and health play a big part. It's so easy to snap at each other during those times.
I have no doubt if we had healthcare he would be getting help. I need a blood transfusion the doctor says. I can't afford it. I have a $2500 medical bill for being diagnosed with something the ER knew I had.
It just like when you take your car in for say new brakes and you get a huge bill because they decided your car needed a tune-up, new fuel intake, a/c flushed, oil changed and a new water pump..etc and they did this without asking you. That's how my ER visit was. I went in for a swollen leg to make sure it wasn't a clot or something else. All they did was draw blood and when the test came back negative they did three tests totally unrelated to my leg without asking because my hemoglobin was low which I told them when I was being checked in I was anemic. When the nurse practitioner told me to take iron I asked how much and she said I don't know. I'm clueless there. Yeah Miss Clueless charge me $1350 for that. When I asked about my leg she was like I don't know it might be a muscle or something. No one actually examined my leg even though it was twice the size of the other one. I have never ever seen such incompetence before.
This is what we are dealing with here.
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