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Originally Posted by Blossom
So some ladies from my online book club are getting together this weekend. I was super excited to go. I stupidly mentioned it to my mother and sister last month even though hubby said he will take me and drop me off.
So Mom calls and ask me about Saturday. I told her I wasn't going to the meeting because I'm fighting the flu. Her and sister threw a fit at me because get this....They were going to show up and spend the day with us. OMG  I'm having nightmare flashbacks of my teen years.
This is why I stay locked in my little apartment. They are still stalking me. It's my fault I should have kept my mouth shut. I can't go anywhere with them knowing where or they will show up.
This flu has saved me mountains of embarrassment. I was looking forward to actually hanging out with the ladies in the club talking books but looks like I'll have to wait for the next meeting and this time keep my mouth shut about it.
Mom and sis yelled at me because they wanted to go out to eat. I told them you don't eat with a flu you starve it. I do not want to eat out with them. They are the most rude, embarrassing and have no manners. They constantly bicker at each other.
For an introvert as myself, it's a nightmare!
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This is why you tell mom after the fact. Pretty much on everything.
What mom doesn't know can't hurt you.
It isn't like we are children and have to put up (live) with the BS.
Now why are you stuck in your apartment? I assume you have cell phones. Does your mom have a tracker on them? So she will know every move you make?
If it was me, I wouldn't tell your mom or sister anything and I would go where I wanted with my husband. If mom calls, let it go to voice mail or just not tell her where you are.
Live your life. Don't let her mentally hold you hostage.
Better yet, every time she calls tell her you and hubby are busy trying to make her a grandmother then click end.