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Originally Posted by Katsunami
Thanks. Maybe. Maybe not. I don't know yet. I wonder if LAT-relations while living in the same house are actually possible. LOL  We'll see. Not there yet. |
My best advice is accept each other and don't try to change the other person.
Also don't go into the relationship thinking it has to be perfect.
Lastly, if you do fall In love, tell each other every day. More than once a day is even better. Just a simple love works.
Never put your partner down.
Most important thing if there is a problem talk about it.
Been married 25 years this time. We should have taken bets. Everyone we knew (friends not family) gave us 6 months tops. We really didn't expect to last. Neither one of us was looking for a relationship. We were both coming from bad marriages though they ended two different ways. (Though that was second marriage for me and not the ex I referred to earlier. )
We were both going through a stage. (Drinking too much, etc.)
Our first act together was to sober up. I figured that he was either going to be the smartest thing or the stupidest thing and I might want to have a clear head before jumping off that cliff.
(Oh hi mom, I met a guy in a bar, he runs a motel so I moved in with him.)
I guess it helped we had no expectations.
Hope this helps someone.