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On husbands, I learned last night that it is easy to misinterpret what someone is feeling.
I thought he was hurting over what his sister is doing.
As it turns out, it wasn't hurt. He is furious with her.
The flip side was he thought I was hurt by her actions. Not hurt, mad enough to want to guilt trip her to tears and beyond. Or just tell her where she can go. And yes, I have the ammo.
Now out of respect for my husband, I will be the better person.
But I had to tell someone. This was handy.
And I still get mad every time I think about what first wife did to him. (Not the dying part, before that.)
It makes me even madder that his sister knew but put that woman on a pedestal.
I didn't know first wife per se, but I knew of her and had actually seen her on numerous occasions.
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