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Old 01-03-2017, 05:10 PM   #29390
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Originally Posted by badgoodDeb View Post
She's a no-frills, introvert, plain speaking person. Just tell her the truth. "The restaurant has changed since I was last there. It's now a homongously expensive, really fancy place. Where else would you like to try?" Or, "Let's try this one instead."

Us introverted, plain speaking types probably don't even LIKE really fancy-schmancy restaurants.

Just tell her.
Absolutely.

Moreover, put yourself in her position. An overly fancy and expensive restaurant for a first date puts too much pressure on her, too. And you're risking sending the wrong message about your own expectations.

It happens. Easily explained and you'll be past it in minutes.
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