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Originally Posted by Katsunami
That's ridiculous of her. This isn't her decision.
She should or shouldn't drive you to the vet, based if she wants to agree or refuse to the request, based on *YOU* making it. The cat shouldn't be a deciding factor for her.
IMHO.
That's bad. A cat is not a human. Therefore it isn't guaranteed that medicine that does X for humans, will do X for cats. You were right not to give it to her.
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That's how it is here. I have no say on anything. My word isn't accepted. I am told how to live my life, what to eat, how to dress, what to do, what to buy. My mom and sister are manipulative busybodies. I'm constantly ask questions that are none of their business. I'm never asked what I want I just have stuff thrust at me then they get upset when I tell them I don't want it. You can't sidetracked them either when they are interrogating something hubby doesn't understand. You can't change the subject with them they are like a dog going after a meaty bone. It was like this when I left home 15 years ago. Manipulative, emotional abuse. Only then I was stuck living with them and it was much much worse. Now I live 30 minutes from them. I had hoped things would change coming back but it hasn't. Mom calls everyday sometimes several. If I don't answer she freaks thinking something is wrong and then my sister calls over and over till I answer. The only thing I can control is not going anywhere with them unless it's absolutely necessary. I swore I'd never come back here to this mess. Now here I am and poor hubby right in the middle of it.
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