It look like there's no need to supplement grandma's ashes. My father and aunt have decided that if my uncle starts demanding things he can have the ashes, do with it what he wants to do with it with his family and my aunt's and our family (and my uncle's kid and ex if they want to) will go to the forest and remember grandma by just taking a walk and have a drink at the restaurant. We don't need ashes to remember her and grandpa.
I wish my great aunt, my grandmother's half sister, was still alive. She wasn't afraid to speak her mind and would have given my uncle an old-fashioned b**locking years ago.
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