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Originally Posted by Cinisajoy
Here are hugs and hopes that everything goes fairly smooth for the scattering.
Although it doesn't matter what you do, someone will get their panties in a twist over something. Oh wait that applies to all family gatherings.
So don't worry about it and do what you think grandmother would have wanted.
The someones can either get over it or live with uncomfortable twisted panties.
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All true. But when you're accused of lying and cheating it also becomes my own problem. Interestingly in her last message she writes that it's up to my father and aunt (but not her father!) to keep us out of the Family Thing. She conveniently forgets that her father not only wants to take away my parent's home and business, but also mine.
It would have been a better idea for one of the cousins from my aunt's side of the family to organize this since they're more neutral.
My aunt is going to write an email to my uncle informing him about the plans. Chances are he will insist in coming and changing what we've planned. One thing is for sure, if he is going to be in the restaurant I won't. I know I shouldn't let him get to me, but I don't feel like I can share a table and be civil, let alone nice, to him. And it would cause me a lot of stress. Everyone else can go in if they want to, but I'll find a nice bench outside (or sit in the car if it's raining) and wait for everybody be done.