He has asthma but doesn't use his inhaler. He knows he has post nasal drip issues but does little to control them. He develops bronchitis and other upper respiratory illnesses regularly. I know all this because he shares with everyone.
Essentially, he doesn't take care of himself.
I understand the weight part. Kind of. But he could do a better job of not eating a ton and eating junk and exercising.
Multiple people have told him that the farting is smelly and annoying. He just shows everyone his own can of air freshener.
It is simply frustrating and nothing anyone has said or done has changed anything. I feel bad because I fear he is going to die far sooner then he should because he is not taking care of himself and he is not changing those patterns.
And the coughing all the time and the farting is really, really annoying.
And this comes from someone who coughed for two months due to pneumonia (twice) and the asthma that it kicked into high gear. So I understand how it all ties together and that there is a period of time that you can't do much about it in the moment. But he isn't doing anything to fix it.
Sorry, it drives me crazy and I fear for him.
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