More than likely your uncle will feel that you 'hate' him. I know my brother feels that I hate him. But in fact, I don't. Not at all. I simply don't like him and don't want to have anything to do with him. He's not a person with whom I wish to associate, despite familiar ties. Many people will say that we 'must' make allowances because they are 'family.' I disagree. There are people with whom I wish to be friends and people I do not want in my life. We only have one life, and we get to choose who we want in it. That's based on character and behavior, not on genetics.
Stitchawl
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