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Originally Posted by kindlekitten
Ok, so my Dad passed 4 years ago in a very horribly orchestrated mess that my mom put together. She turned on me, had my sister turn on me and by the time my kids got there had filled their heads full of nonsense as well. After I had returned home and the estate was being probated, she tried to manipulate me into signing my share over to her and I refused. She once again manipulated my kids and got them angry at me. But for the huge cancer deal that I notified her about we haven't spoken since. I have however, gifted at every Christmas, birthday and mothers day. I've never had a word of thanks. I'm seriously considering sending a copy of "Mommy Dearest" for this mother's day. I could go for stinky fish, dead flowers, a broken small appliance. ... thoughts?
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I'm sorry, but I guess my answer is "why bother"? Seriously. Do you actually care? After the treatment, I'd just walk away. If she wants to contact you, she knows your address/phone. I honestly can't imagine spending one scintilla of energy or thought on anyone that treated me that way. I'd say you've done your best, but enough is enough.