@
DedTV -- I urge you to look at how others have responded in similar situations. It is entirely possible to question someone else's decisions/behavior without being intolerably rude in the process.
DaltonST has been in marked disagreement with a number of people here, true enough. That has been pointed out in a reasoned, polite manner, and anyone who does not wish to deal with an abrasive plugin maintainer is now forewarned.
As the good Dr. pointed out, the posting guidelines apply to everyone equally. You cannot simply violate them wilfully using the excuse of lecturing people on the rues -- and that is aside for the fact that you are conveying the wrong message entirely.
Finally -- if @
Kay_2 was still in need of help, s/he would probably have said something in the intervening months.