Thanks everyone. It seems the apartment we wanted we didn't get but the landlord is willing to give us a 1 bedroom 410SQFT instead. It's tiny but it's a hundred cheaper. Mom is blowing her top as it's not in the best of the buildings and it's second story so she blaming my SIL who has no idea any of this is going on. I have to hung up on her today when she accused me of turning against her and being on my SIL side who I haven't talk to since she and my brother and my mom went out for St Patrick's Day.
I'd forgotten what it like to deal with a mental ill person like my mother. *sigh*
I'm actually happy to find out it's second story as it's what I prefer. (The cat in me I guess)

It's not ideal but it's will be only temporary. The Landlord said once hubby finds permanent employment we can have a 2 Bedroom so we wont be locked into this place. My biggest worry is where am I going to put the litterbox?!?
It's getting really stressful and it shouldn't be as everything is pretty much worked out but my Family only knows drama it seems.