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Originally Posted by Hitch
Both women got the exact same result, except woman #2 massaged your ego.
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...except that he said that they got their way decidedly more often and much quicker, just by asking or talking, instead of exploding to pieces if something wasn't to their liking. That's not massaging an ego. That's mature, rational methodology to reach satisfactory-to-both-sides solution to a problem.
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She HANDLED you. Women have been HANDLING men since the dawn of time. You want to be handled? I'm sure that there are thousands of Dutch (and other) women that are perfectly happy to do that; trust me, we all know HOW. (We're trained on how to do it from childhood.)
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It is precisely this mindset; that Western women are trained from childhood to
manipulate (yeah...
manipulate. It's the correct word for 'handle,') controlling rather than working together for a balanced end result that results in a win-win situation, that makes Asian women so much more attractive in a relationship. As you said, you've been trained on how to manipulate men from childhood. Asian women are trained to discuss both sides of an issue and resolve it without needing to control others.
Again, these are generalities. I'm quite sure there are plenty of Western women who weren't trained as you were, just as there are plenty of Japanese women who feel the need to dominate.
Stitchawl