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I think it is foolish to prejudge people by their ethnic origins.
Some people are classic examples of our preconceptions, but most people try to do the best they can.
My idea of an ideal relationship is one where the people involved seem to still enjoy each others company. A 70+ person calling their spouse sweetie and having the spouse look pleased, makes me think how lovely.
And seeing two people who have been a couple for a few years enjoy a long conversation after several years of marriage, not revolving totally on domestic matters, makes me think they both must be doing something right.
It takes two to tango and if one person is very dominantly in charge,except in rare cases it is because the other person has allowed it and possibly even encouraged it.
Of course sufficient funds do help in making life smoother, but I have seen a lot of miserable wealthy people too.
Helen
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