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Originally Posted by Dylrob
I wish I knew how to get a friend of mine out of her dependency relationship. She's broken up with him on numerous occasions, moved out, and a few days later called him to get her because she ran into something she couldn't handle.
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Long time ago before I learned to shorter nose, I used to negotiate a friend couple back together 2-3 times because both bothered me all the time about it. Eventually everything happened naturally: Break-ups grew longer and dependencies non-existent.
Also, after 8 yr relationship with girlfriend we broke up, her wish. I once decided to keep total communications breakdown: After 2 weeks she phoned and blasted me with booming flak, about me sometimes leaving window open to cold, killing her plants. Later I turned into plant and married her. Still a vegetable.
