The key to "getting along" (with regard to branding/anti-branding, anyway) is to simply not give two sh*ts if someone hates/loves what you hate/love. I'm perfectly willing to hate/love what I hate/love in a total vacuum. I feel no particular urge to team up with OR segregate based on that hate/love. My hate/love needs no external validation/conflict to thrive. I'm OK with people who think differently than I do (provided they reciprocate that OK-ness).
Or perhaps I just don't hate/love many
objects.